What About The Golden Cross Of Love for Women? The 25 men simply admitted that they prefer women in this age range. Above 35 is less ideal and not bad so don’t be offended please if you are 36+. One of the key reasons is because they find women ages 35 and younger to be the most ideal. Of the 25 single men I surveyed ages 30-40, they all agree that around 35 is the best time for a man to be single. After a while, men become inured to a woman’s dismissal, which ironically makes them more attractive because of an added level of confidence, that leads to better dialogue and approachability. It doesn’t mean you have to buy these things, but just knowing the fact that you can provides a 35 year old man a wealth of confidence.Īny single man in their 30s also has enough rejections from women to fill a notebook that could turn into a screen play. The only thing missing from this single man’s life by definition, is a life partner.īy the time you’re in your 30s, you’re able to buy a comfortable car and a property to call your own provided you’ve been saving and working since college. The Golden Cross Of Love happens for men at age 35. With 10+ years of savings and a career he is proud of, 35 year old men are feeling confident.įitness levels are generally good given illnesses, sports injuries, and work haven’t had enough time to plague a body yet. To answer these question, I surveyed roughly 25 men and 25 women ages 21-45 to get their viewpoints. Is the dwindling selection of men as women get older simply karma for rejecting us boys in school? Or is the supply shrinkage a decision by women to stubbornly continue to refuse dating younger men? We get to date more and more women since there are more and more younger women to choose from! Meanwhile, as women get older, given they believe younger men are irrationally “eww”, their choice gets smaller and smaller. Yet a funny thing happens as men get older. We’ve been conditioned to be afraid, therefore we stay away. “ He’s a freshmen? Gaawd, eww! So immature!” Oh gosh, how lame.Īs a result of our consistent rejections by “older” women, we don’t like dating older women. Since we were wee lads, girls have always discriminated against younger boys in school. Being a goofball is the path of least resistance. Yes, men are immature, but only because women let us be immature. Maybe women think men are immature because even at 45, with our receding hair and ever expanding girth, we act like college dudes chasing tail even though we no longer have game. Or perhaps the perception starts in the 7th grade where we start snapping one too many bras. Perhaps it starts off in the 1st grade when we’re running around yelling with blue slurpee stains on our Sesame Street t-shirts. ‘Til this day, I don’t know why! Ladies, please explain! Single Men: From Boys To Men Let’s just say that older sister Karen wasn’t very happy with either of us.
She’d come watch my tennis matches and I’d take her to McDonald’s afterward for some hot apple pie and McLovin. We hung out after school together almost every single day. Stephanie was Karen’s younger sister and she was hot! In fact, Stephanie was even more beautiful than her older sister, and I just had to pursue.įor one semester, Stephanie and I had a frolicking good time. The rejection was devastating until a bright light named Stephanie joined my high school as a freshman. This is exactly what my mom told me every time I brought her cupcakes. Karen was a 17 year old junior, and I was an incredibly good looking and intelligent 16 year old. No matter what I said, or what nice things I did for Karen, she was out of my league since I was younger. It took about two months to muster up the courage to ask her out and when I did, all she responded was, “ Sorry, I don’t date sophomores.” When I was younger I got my heart broken by an older woman. You’ll always have a chance at finding someone. As single men grow older, they get wiser and more confident. Single men always seem to be in the game.